Daughter dating deadbeat
This becomes the norm, a horrible norm, and men are not given the benefit of doubt in family court, in society or on the playground.Further, the fewer active dads around, the fewer active dads our children see — and as a society we stand to have this trend perpetuated forever and ever.His background check says he’s been in prison two times for drugs and bad checks.The day our daughter turned 18, she got mouthy and hateful, packed her bags and moved in with my parents, against our wishes.In 411 BC, ancient Greek playwright Aristophanes staged Lysistrata, a story about a Athenian woman who ends the interminable Peloponnesian War between Athens and Sparta by convincing the women of Greece to withhold sex (and seize the treasury) from the men, who of course make all the decisions about war and money. One of the most trafficked things I’ve written is the post, ‘The real reason your ex doesn’t see the kids’ about the so-very-common and heartbreaking reality that the majority of fathers who are not in romantic relationships with the children’s mothers, are not actively involved with the kids. Powerful and possible message that women can change the world with our pussies?The last time Bonnie saw Elam was in 2011, after Elam spanked her son for opening a refrigerator door.
It was a summer day in 2005, nearly 25 years after Elam relinquished his parental rights in court and refused to pay child support for Bonnie, whose name has been changed, and her younger brother.
'My aunt Nora told me to never interfere with the relationship so even if I can't stand his punk a**, if he wanted her to call him or whatever I'd try to make her call him.
But if I really say the s*** he's done, that she's not privy to that would hurt my daughter,' she sobbed.
My daughter started seeing a guy (her first boyfriend) when she was 17 against our wishes.
We tried to make them break up but she said she’d kill herself or runaway if we called the law on him. I felt like something was wrong with him so ran background check, found out he is 28, has no job, no phone, no car, no money and lives with grandmother.