Ex girlfriend is dating other guys
I’ve come up with, what I believe to be, a fairly good approximation of what is going on. For one, if your ex has moved on seemingly quickly, it may have to do with her attachment pattern, which might very well be .
A study from the University of Toronto has found that anxiously attached individuals can more easily let go of their ex-partners if they focus on someone new.
One the recurring patterns I’ve noticed in the breakup stories that guys share with me is that they are shocked at how (seemingly) fast their ex-girlfriend is able to move on.
He was having a difficult time processing what he was feeling. All these thoughts and more churned through his mind in the early days.
Of course, as time ticks by you begin to realize just how much she meant to you. Time has a funny way of making us realize our mistakes and without a doubt letting your ex girlfriend go was a big one.
So, one day you decide to take a chance, to win her back.
Or maybe she just seems to be handling the whole breakup a lot better than you are.
The question remains: how is she able to move on so fast, and why does all this seem so much harder on you than it is on her?